Have you ever led a team and realized—maybe a little too late—that something was off? On the surface, everything looks fine. But people have stopped sharing or pushing back, and the energy… shifts.
This happened with a client whose meetings were heavy with silence. And not the kind you get when people are focused, the kind where they’re holding back. One day, a colleague asked him,
“Have you noticed how quiet your team has become?”
He had noticed, a bit, but wasn’t sure how to handle it. So, he’d buried himself deeper in deadlines and to-do lists.
This is where reputation can unravel in operations: When the dashboard says “all good,” but the room tells a different story.
In this episode, you’ll hear why silence can break teams and how to be known as a leader who is tuned in.
Recognizing the Silent Signals in Your Ops Team
You know as well as I do that operations is where vision actually becomes reality. I often see that it’s in the quiet moments—the ones that don’t make a spreadsheet—where leadership is tested most.
I have a lot of respect for ops leaders. You get things done and keep everything running smoothly. But sometimes that drive becomes a blindfold. When you’re focused on keeping things moving, it’s easy to miss what’s quietly happening underneath: silence, distrust, hesitation.
This story about my client has stuck with me because he was so good at his job, he didn’t realize how replaceable he’d become. Not because he lacked skill, he had oodles of that. But because his team stopped trusting him enough to speak up. Trust isn’t a given; it’s earned. And it’s fragile. Without it, no process or system can hold your leadership together.
Building Credibility Through Consistency and Presence
So, what builds credibility day after day? It’s not grand speeches or heroic rescues to problems. It’s simple, consistent acts, showing up in the small moments. Here’s what I’ve found matters:
- First, be consistent. Not just in what you say, but in how you show up. If you say your door is open, make it real. Give people your full attention when they come to you. Don’t multitask or rush the conversation. Treat that time as sacred. This kind of reliability—being fully present and follow-through—is the foundation of trust.
- Second, own your mistakes. Trust deepens not when you’re perfect, but when you’re accountable. One client tried to ignore a mistake, hoping no one caught it. But they did—and it came back to hurt their credibility. The real damage was in the silence, not the mistake. Trusted leaders turn mistakes into connection points.
- Third, make your value and your intentions clear. It’s so easy to hide behind systems and an avalanche of work quietly. But your team needs to see why you’re there for them. Share openly. Invite feedback. Build together.
Here’s the one simple rule to protect your credibility when things get quiet: Notice the silence, and respond with presence, accountability, and clear communication.
Radical Recognition: Seeing and Hearing the Unspoken
Here’s something I’ve been thinking about: What often hurts your credibility isn’t what you do, but what you don’t notice. Silence isn’t neutral. It slowly eats away at trust. And feedback? It’s not optional. It’s the air your leadership breathes.
As a leader, your credibility depends on your ability to see what’s easy to miss and hear what’s hard to say.
Leadership, at its core, is also about being willing to say what no one else will. This is radical recognition, paying attention to the unspoken and having the courage to bring it into the light.
So, here’s something for you to reflect on: When was the last time you noticed silence in your team?
How might you respond differently next time to turn that quiet into connection and trust?
Don’t rush to fix or defend—just notice. Your job isn’t to be the smartest in the room. It’s to help your team become more engaged, connected, and resilient.
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